Let’s be honest: cats are mysterious, majestic creatures who often act like they own the house and technically, they do. But even the fluffiest feline overlords need a little help keeping their coats in tip-top shape. The trick is grooming them often enough to maintain a strong bond, but not so much that they start plotting your demise from the top of the fridge.
So how often should you groom a cat to keep the peace and the purring going?
The Sweet Spot: It Depends on the Cat (Of Course It Does)
Cats aren’t one-size-fits-all when it comes to grooming. Here’s a breakdown:
Short-Haired Cats:
These cool customers generally only need brushing once or twice a week. It keeps loose fur and dander at bay and helps you sneak in some low-key bonding time. Most of them think they’re doing you a favor, but we’ll take what we can get.
Long-Haired Cats:
These glamorous drama queens need a little more attention daily brushing is ideal. It prevents mats and keeps that luxurious coat looking runway ready (or at least not like a tumbleweed in your hallway). Go slowly and gently, and you’ll avoid both knots and hissing fits.

Kittens & Seniors:
Kittens benefit from gentle grooming a few times a week to get used to it. Seniors might need extra help with hygiene, so you may groom them more often depending on their health and mobility. Think of it as kitty spa day minus the cucumbers on their eyes (unless you’re feeling brave).
Signs You’re Grooming Too Often
If your cat starts hiding under the couch the moment you pull out the brush, it might be time to ease up. Watch for:

- Restlessness or bolting mid-groom
- Tail flicks that say, “I’m only tolerating this because you feed me.”
- Vocal protests (yelling is not bonding, no matter how cute it sounds)
The key is making grooming a positive experience. Treats, soft voices, and maybe a little bribery go a long way. (No shame we all do it.)
Keeping It Chill
A few tips to make grooming feel less like a chore for both of you:
- Start short and build up time
- Use the right tools (not your hairbrush from high school)
- End on a good note with playtime or a treat
- Don’t stress it some days it’s okay to just do a quick swipe and move on
Final Meow
To keep that sweet human-cat connection strong, aim for regular but relaxed grooming. For most cats, that means anywhere from once a week to daily, depending on their coat and personality. Keep it chill, respect their signals, and most importantly don’t take the stink-eye personally. It’s just part of the process.
After all, the real secret to bonding with your cat? Letting them think it was their idea all along.

I have a sassy diva long haired cat but oh my gosh, I wish she didn’t shed as much. She’s white, so whenever we wear black, I see how much she truly sheds just by picking her up. She’s fluffy, so imagine how it is to comb her hair and she doesn’t like it… here comes the scratching. So we don’t brush her frequently.
She sounds like a fabulous fluffball! Try short, gentle brushing sessions with treats to help her warm up to it. Even a few strokes at a time can make a big difference! If you have any more questions feel free to ask.
Hey thanks for this post!
I was actually wondering this the other day, especially if you have long hair cats, are they are more high maintenance.
I really like how you have mentioned each factor because they certainly should be considered. The sings you have mentioned are one you should look out for. I agree with senior cats needing more grooming sessions as they find it difficult to look after themselves due to reduced mobility.
Thanks again and have a great day!
Great question! Yes, long-haired cats usually need more grooming to prevent mats and tangles but with regular brushing, it becomes a relaxing routine for both of you! If you have any more questions about this article feel free to ask.